Respond to requests

Confirm, ask a question or decline an appointment request, and follow the exchange up to the meeting.

2026-07-04

When someone books a slot, their request lands in your appointment list with the Pending status. You then decide what comes next: confirm it, ask for a detail, or decline it. Every reply is passed on to the person, and the exchange stays visible in the record.

Spot pending requests

  • Untreated requests carry the Pending status and are grouped under the matching tab.
  • A counter shows how many requests are waiting, including in the page header.
  • The Pending, Question, Confirmed, Declined, Completed and All tabs filter by state.
  • The search bar finds a request by name, email, phone or subject.

Respond to a request

  1. On a Pending request, click Respond.
  2. The card recalls the requester, their subject, their message and the requested moment.
  3. Choose an action: Confirm, Question or Decline.
  4. Add a message for the person, then submit.

The three actions

ActionEffectMessage
ConfirmSets the agreed date and timeOptional
QuestionAsks for a detail before decidingRequired
DeclineTurns the request downOptional

Tip: when confirming, you can adjust the agreed date and time. Useful if the requested moment does not quite fit but a nearby slot works.

Exchange before confirming

The Question action is for when a piece of information is missing. Your question goes to the person, who can reply: their answer comes back into the card and a New badge flags an unread message. You can then confirm or decline with full knowledge.

Note: pastoral exchanges are sensitive. The content of a request and your reply are only visible to authorised people.

Follow the state of appointments

Once handled, the appointment changes status and colour: amber when pending, green when confirmed, red when declined. A confirmed appointment shows the agreed date and time, keeping your diary readable at a glance.

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